mar'ah solehah-priceless gift

Husband - I feel happy.
Wife - why?
Husband - Because I’m lucky
Wife - why do you say so?
Husband - Because Allah loves me.
Wife - is it?
Husband - Yes that is why Allah has given me a priceless gift
Wife - Masha Allah! what is it?
Husband - That is you my wife !! that is you!! A righteous wife is the best gift that a man could have..

MARRIAGE is the rainbow

MARRIAGE is the rainbow between two hearts sharing seven colors:
feelings, love, sadness, happiness, truth, faith, secret and respect. :)
and working towards jannah

What is love?

Love is when Khadijah (R.A) spent her entire wealth on this Deen for the Man she loved... Love is when the Prophet (S.A.W) took the glass that Ayesha (R.A) drank from and put his lips on the exact place she put her's and then drank... Love is when the Prophet (S.A.W) had a race with Ayesha (R.A) and joked with her when she lost...Love is when Zainab (R.A) would sacrifice her most prized possession, her everything for her Husband...Real Love is not based on romance, candle light dinners and walks along the beach rather it is based On respect, compromise, care and trust

jangan bersedih teman

~*♥ Kata bijak cinta Abdullah bin Khubaiq : Janganlah kamu bersedih hati kecuali karena sesuatu yang akan mencelakakanmu esok di akhirat, dan Janganlah kamu bersenang hati, kecali karena sesuatu yang akan menyenangkannya dialam keabadian nanti.

Kata bijak cinta Jalaludin Rumi : Hati dapat menciptakan perdamaian dan ketentraman diri, karena hati dapat melihat kebenaran 70 kali lebih akurat dibandingkan dengan indera lainnya.

Kata bijak cinta abi Thalib : Banyak ilmu akan banyak kawan, kaya harta akan banyak musuh.

Kata bijak cinta Al llbari : Ilmu bertambah dengan banyak menyedekahkannya, dan berkurang jika anda menahannya.

Kata bijak cinta Ar – Rafieri : Ingatan tidak pernah salah, yang salah adalah cara kita menggunakan ingatan. Jika kamu menghadapi dunia ini dengan jiwa yang luas, maka kamu melihat berbagai hakekat kegembiraan semakin bertambah dan luas, sedangkan hakekat kedudukan semakin mengecil dan menyempit. ♥*~

 dapat dr seorg kawan, aku sukaa sgt kata2 perenggan pertama tu... dpt kita sedar tak perlu utk sedih pd perkara yg tak kekal...

kadang2sedih,kdg2 gmbira...tu lumrah.. tp jgn smp ksedihan dunia tu mnyebabkan kita lg jauh dr akhirat...n smp kita lupa kalau kita tak da usaha utk akhirat,,maka nti kita pulak akn jd org yg pling sedih selama2nya..... sabar , syukur, tawakal., usaha....

LOVE HIM

Love him …when he "forgets" that special occasion. For him every moment with you is special so he does not need an occasion.



Love him…when he comes late from the Masjid. He wants to make sure he is early with you in Jannah (Paradise).



Love him…when he admonishes you to don the hijaab. He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah's Mercy when you leave the home.



Love him...when he is jealous. Out of all the women he could have, he chose you to be his wife!



Love him...when he is working till late. At least he comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his loving and caring arms.



Love him…when he has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too (and maybe more)



Love him…when does not praise your cooking. He told you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.



Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was more busy caring for the family than grooming himself. By the way he is cute!



Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is out earning a halaal (pure) income for the family.



Love him...when he does not reply to your questions. He does not want to hurt your feelings or is absorbed in thinking about your welfare.



Love him…when he looks beautiful. He's yours to appreciate!



Love him…when he goes out in the Path of Allah. He is preparing a blissful eternal home for you in Jannah.



Love him...when he does not comment when you get angry. He is a good listener.



Love him…when he buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell him it's what you've always wanted. He took the time and money out just for you!



Love him…when he has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help him change.



Love him…when he is irritable and moody. Buy chocolates, massage his head and feet and just chat to him. He will become your slave!



Love him…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It's like a storm; it happens and will soon pass by.



Love him…when he drives so fast. He only wants you to be there in time.



Love him…when he extends his period of rest. He is re-charging himself to serve you the best.



Love him…when he forgets to say "I love you". He actually shows his love in many other ways.



Love him…when he forgets to buy the bread or milk. He was rushing home to be with you.



Love him…when he does not give you a chance to talk. He just knows what is in your heart and what it is you want to say.



Love him…when he "demands" respect. After all he is the head of the house.



Love him…when he shouts the kids. He only wants to ensure they are corrected and have a good moral upbringing.



Love him…he is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

All this forms part of a man's character. Your Husband is part of your life and should be treated as the King!.
Almighty Allah Ta'ala says:



" And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts)…" (Qur'an 30:21)



The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported to have said:



· 'Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise.'"(Hadith-Ibn Majah)

· "If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her month (of Ramadan), obeys her husband and guards her chastity, then it will be said to her: 'Enter Paradise by whichever of its gates you wish."(Hadith-Ahmad and al-Tabarani)



· "Pay attention to how you treat him(husband), for he is your Paradise and your Hell."(Hadith-13 Ahmad and al-Nisa'i)



· "No human being is permitted to prostrate to another, but if this were permitted I would have ordered wives to prostrate to their husbands, because of the greatness of the rights they have over them."(Hadith: Ahmad and al-Bazzar)



Don't wait for that special occasion, take time NOW to make him feel Special in Every Way! Just give him a HUGE HUG and if he asks why then say: " It's just because you are so SPECIAL…"

-----------mgkin utk bini yg suke komplen? tah la...--

.:: Ya Allah... I'm Sorry!!! ::..

Ya Allah.....!
It Hurts When I Have To Let Go The Things I Really Love..
It Hurts When I Have To Lose Something That I Really Want..
...It Hurts, Allah
It Hurts..

But Believe Me, Ya Allah..
I Will Feel Hurt Most When I Know Disobey You..
It Hurt Most, Allah..
Believe Me..
Believe Me

I Realize That I Can Never Live Without Your Mercy..
I Realize That I Can Never Smile Without The Concious That You Are Pleased With Me..
I Realize That I Can Never Lead My Life If You Are Unhappy With Me..

I Am Sorry..
I Am Really Really Sorry..
For I Have Neglected You For Long Time..
For I Have Loved Others More Than I Should Love You..
For I Have Prioritized Others More Than I Should..

Please Forgive me..........Ameen

My child,

A Letter from "Mom n Dad"...
All the daughters and sons should read this ...

My child,

When I get old, I hope you understand '...n have patience with me
In case I break the plate, or spill soup on the table because I’m losing my eyesight, I hope you don’t yell at me.
 

Older people are sensitive, always having self pity when you yell.
When my hearing gets worse 'n I can’t hear what you’re saying, I hope you don’t call me ‘Deaf!’
Please repeat what you said or write it down.

I’m sorry, my child.
I’m getting older.
When my knees get weaker, I hope you have the patience to help me get up.
Like how I used to help you while you were little, learning how to walk.
 

Please bear with me, when I keep repeating myself like a broken record, 

I hope you just keep listening to me.
 

Please don’t make fun of me, or get sick of listening to me.

Do you remember when you were little 'n you wanted a ballon? You repeated yourself over 'n over until you get what you wanted.
 

Please also pardon my smell. I smell like an old person.Please don’t force me to shower.
My body is weak.
 

Old people get sick easily when they’re cold. I hope I don’t gross you out.

Do you remember when you were little? I used to chase you around because you didn’t want to shower.
 

I hope you can be patient with me when I’m always cranky. It’s all part of getting old.
 

You’ll understand when you’re older.
'n if you have spare time, I hope we can talk even for a few minutes.
 

I’m always all by myself all the time, 'n have no one to talk to.
 

I know you’re busy with work.
Even if you’re not interested in my stories, please have time for me.

 

Do you remember when you were little? I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear.
 

When the time comes, 'n I get ill 'n bedridden, I hope you have the patience to take care of me.
 

I’m sorry if I accidentally wet the bed or make a mess.
 

I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life.
 

I’m not going to last much longer, anyway.
When the time of my death comes, I hope you hold my hand 'n give me strength to face death.

لست أعمى

تزوج رجل من امرأة جميله جدا جدا وأحبها جدا

وجاء وقت انتشر فيه مرض يسبب الدمامل في البشره ويشوه المريض تشويه كبير جدا
وفي يوم شعرت الزوجة الجميله بأعراض المرض وعلمت انها مصابة به وستفقد جمالها
لكن زوجها كان خارج البيت لم يعلم بعد بمرضها وفي طريقه للعودة أصيب بحادث أدى لفقد بصره وأصبح أعمى
وأكمل الزوجان حياتهما الزوجية يوما وراء يوم الزوجة تفقد جمالها وتتشوه اكثر واكثر , والزوج أعمى لايعلم بالتشوه الذي أفقدها جمالها بل تحول من جمال الى قبح واكملو حياتهم 40 سنة (أربعين سنة ) بنفس درجة الحب والوئام لهما في أول الزواج الرجل يحبها بجنون ويعاملها باحترامهم السابق وزوجته كذلك
الى أن
جاء يوم
توفت فيه زوجته ( رحمها الله )
وحزن الزوج حزنا شديدا لفراق حبيبته
وحينما انتهى الدفن
جاء الوقت ليذهب جميع الرجال الى منازلهم
فقام الزوج وخرج من المكان وحده
فناداه رجل يا أبو فلان الى أين أنت ذاهب ؟
فقال : الى بيتي
فرد الرجل بحزن على حاله : وكيف ستذهب وحدك وأنت أعمى
فقال الزوج : لست أعمى !! انما تظاهرت بالعمى حتى لااجرح زوجتي عندما علمت باصابتها بالمرض , لقد كانت نعم الزوجة وخشيت أن تحرج من مرضها فتظاهرت بالعمى طوال الاربعين سنة وتعاملت معها بنفس حبي لها قبل مرضها

"Honey, I love burned biscuits."

When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school.

I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned.

He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your momma put in a long hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides... a burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things... and imperfect people.. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else.

What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each others differences, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

Life is too short to wake up with regrets...

Love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't.

ENJOY LIFE NOW - IT HAS AN EXPIRY DATE!

LOVE HER.. (EVERY HUSBAND SHOULD READ THIS )

"Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea.
She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for
you.

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She
wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her…when she asks you to play with the
kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
...
Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men
she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that
drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the
morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids
homework. She only wants you to be part of the
home.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your
opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours
so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready.
She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like.
Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit.
You have many more and with wisdom and
politeness you have all the time to help her change.

Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing.
Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy
chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to
her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing.
It happens and will pass

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You
needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She
only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to
make things right for both

Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other
special reason!!!!

All this forms part of a Woman's Character.
Women are part of your life and should be treated
as the Queen.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)
advised concerning the woman:
• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the
treatment of their wives."